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ERRRRRRR: script "to forbid is to objectify" does not exsist.

why are men afraid of thinking about sexuality and personal happiness?

a masculine relationship with their own body means a learned incapability to earn pleasure from themself: to take care of themself. it requires that pleasure and validation come from an external source, because self love hurts this masculine brain. so it seaks external validation: through the socially accsepted avenue the objectification of a body, a sexual presence, any "woman". when the only socially and mentally valid avenue for self love is the body of another, the objectifiers body is forgoten. the emotional depth of listening to ones own body, being able to empethize that physical perspective to anyother person, break under the inabilty to see themself as beutiful. through the objectification of their body a new body must be found. but that new bodily relation will be tinged with objectification.

an inabilty to relate and empethize creates casms of discontinuity. it creates missundersatnding in the objectifier who has not seen the whole form of objectified. the objectifier sees what they want to see in the objectified. misconseptions, paranoias, and broken desires become truth.